For the past week now I have been in what I've termed a "post Italy hangover". Getting back into the groove of things has been a bit harder than I previously had thought. However, I do not think it is due fully to missing Italy; before leaving for Italy I was already in this "funk". I was having trouble approaching, one of my wings was getting on me (note: community guys suck to go out with once you've popped your approaching cherry, they're just nerds), and going out was such a chore.
As I've written before, in Italy I rekindled that fun for going out, and I intend to keep it that way. Having said that, I want to jump start other parts of my life as well. Starting tomorrow I will be making changes in my life and scenery. This was inspired mainly by conversations I had with two friends, who suggested that one of the best ways to change behavior is to change one's surrounding environment. With that being the case, I will change the following things:
1) Leisure computer time will be cut in half
2) Make more activities outside of the apartment (e.g. read books on the quad).
3) Re-arrange my room, get some posters and other decorations
That is all I have on the list for now, as I think of more stuff I will add to it.
2 comments:
Well done, I look forward to hearing about your progress. You're making the REAL effort to change your life, and you're doing it effectively. Truly inspirational.
Whatever you do, please stay true to yourself and us, stay gay!
The way you open is to be natural, be boring, be like this. Don't worry about running game, just go out, enjoy the people you are with, be interesting, and if the people you end up talking to are worthy of your time, be interested in them. That's it. Don't worry about "game."
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