Wednesday, June 20, 2007

Exit strategy


I was thinking about our current situation and all the proposed exit strategies there are for it, and I started thinking. When will I say enough is enough with all of this PU business? I mean, I got into this with the eventual goal that getting women involved in my life, and to a greater extent to become 'charming' and good socially, would become a natural part of who I am.

Therefore, as I progress through this PU business, I ask myself "when will I stop reading, stop watching, and stop discussing all of this?". I think at a certain point one needs to have faith that he has done enough "studying" and discussing about this, and trust the fact that this is an ongoing process and you are at the point where you socialize for fun and you will naturally become better at it.

When I first started thinking about this, I asked myself if I should put a definitive date on when I would stop all of this. Then, I considered just letting it happen naturally, and now I am just not sure. I think more or less after this Christmas the process will happen naturally as I will have to start working until law school (the current plan is to work overseas). To sum it up, I am not sure when this will happen, but I know it is inevitable. Why is it inevitable? For the reasons stated above. I want this, and know it will, to be a natural thing that is removed from my conscious into my unconscious. Even the greatest of orators and politicians who studied their craft moved on from merely discussing it to living it.

1 comment:

DDD said...

I have an insight into this tonight. The problem isn't the game, the problem is the community of misfits. From what I know of you, you seem like a good guy, a decent human being. Then focus your goal on making new friends. Be interested in them, and if want attraction, be interesting. Rather than "gaming" people.