I had a great time in Italy! For one month I traveled all of Italy, hung out with a cool group of guys, made some new great friends, and went out and had a blast almost every night. On top of that, I didn't think about approaching, seduction, M3, opening, or whatever. Having been in this thing for a considerable amount of time I believe people boil down more or less into two groups into these things. Nerds and soon to be social butterflies.
Nerds are the people who carried their dorkiness into this. They'll talk you ear off about the intricacies of one type of game versus another, or why one guru is better than the other, however, they will rarely talk about how last nite out in a bar or club went for them. The reason for this is because they rarely if ever go out! If they do, they don't socialize, they're way too into their heads analyzing mundane bullshit (this was me for like 4 months, though I did open). I just want to grab these guys and shake them up and yell "it doesn't fucking matter! be fucking normal, have fun and make women part of this experience!".
Then there are the soon to be social butterflies, most of the people with whom I socialize that are in this "community" are a part of. These guys have lives, or at least are building really great lives, and are just taking this stuff and using it to add-on and/or enhance their lives. Sure, they sit down and think over what happened, but they won't sit down and talk about intricacies of game. These are the guys I want to be friends with, not the nerds. They make women a part of an already fun life, which is why they'll probably get women in the first place.
In short, I am not even sure if I want to hang around all this PUA stuff anymore. I have been improving, and it is not due to posting on forums about the finer points of direct game, but rather continually and shamelessly socializing while having fun and not taking stuff personally. It's all a game anyways, and the more you play the better you get.
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I LOVE THIS POST! I wish I could have stated everything in such short succinct elegance... There are some people who will never be good, and then there are some who need a few pointers here and there, then become superstars.
Quit "the community," be with your cool friends. Not guys who I think are truly gay, both as in lame and as in denial :)
Whats a PUA? ;)
" had a great time in Italy!"
You tease, tell your loyal reading fans about it.
"It's all a game anyways, and the more you play the better you get. "
This is more than insightful, its sublime in its truth. It applies to all things about life. We're all playing roles but some of us choose to rewrite our scripts into leading roles. Great post.
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